Review + Original Quiz – Hungry Ghost

Review:

👻👻👻👻/5 Ghost Stars

My Book Tour Date: April 29, 2023

Trigger warnings CW: fatphobia, disordered eating, loss of a loved one, death, body-shaming

This graphic novel touched upon a very common body shaming problem among Asians. I’m Asian and in our culture, people believe that skinnier people are superior, happy, pretty, and will have no problem finding love. Many people develop eating disorder because they can’t withstand peer pressure from the people they surround themselves with, such as family and friends. I am grateful that Victoria Ying addressed this problem in her graphic novel, especially since it reflect off of her own experience. I thoroughly enjoyed the graphic novel. I find it very relatable because I am one of those people who they label “fat.”

My favorite quote was when her father said, “If anything happens, it will all be okay. I promised myself that when I was young, I would live my life in the riches way possible. I’ve done that every day, and if I were to die right here, right now, I would have no regrets because I did it all.” I wish I could say that about my life, but I haven’t reached that point in my life yet.

This isn’t a quiz about knowledge but about feelings, thoughts and emotions, and endless imagination and possibilities.

Question #1: Val, when did you start liking Jordan?

Val: I’m not sure.. probably when she said, she’s like the cookie monster but for cakes! Lol. She’s so real and true to herself!

Question #2: Val’s mom, what is your story growing up living with grandma? Did she always tell you that you need to be skinny in order for someone to love you? Someone like dad?

Val’s mom: *Stammering* What do you mean?! Grandma was only trying to show me how much she loves me by telling me to stop eating desserts and cheese so I can stay skinny! Of course, I want to be skinny like the models in the magazine! *Brushes the question off like it was nothing.* (Typical Asian reaction!)

Question #3: Val, the night that your brother went out and your mom “prepared” dinner and only gave you a yogurt. What did you really want to tell her but didn’t say?

Val: I wanted to tell her, dad’s dead! Why do you care so much about being skinny! I can’t even think about food or my body. Grief is making me hungry. I want to eat whatever food that comes my way. Is me being skinny going to bring him back?!

Queation #4: Val, when did you start liking Allan? And why didn’t you share this little info with Jordan?

Val: Um…. I don’t know. I want to be skinny enough and pretty enough before I mention it to Jordan so she can help me drop hint to Allan. Plus, we were all such good friends… I don’t want to ruin our friendship. I was insecure, but now, I wish the best for Jordan and Allan!

Queation #5: Val’s mom, do you have any regrets in life? Your husband always stresses that he would die with no regret because he did it all. What about you?

Val’s mom: *Burst into tears* I regret that I didn’t hug him one last time before he left for his flight. I miss him so much, and I really wanted Val to say one last goodbye to him at the… morgue…

Question #6: Val, what is the one food you really want to eat again now that you don’t feel so bad about eating?

Val: The crepe from Paris! I was too stressed and worried about the calories when I was eating it. I want to eat it again without thinking about how much calories and fats it contains!

Question #7: Allan, what do you think about skinny and chubby-ish girls?

Allan: Huh? *Scratches head* What is there to think about? I don’t have any thoughts about it. I like Jordan just the way she is. She’s fun, witty, funny, confident and carefree. I never thought about her weight. I enjoy the times we eat out together and be silly like old times.

That is a wrap for the Original Quiz post. Many thanks to Hear Our Voices Tour for the ARC of Hungry Ghost!

Book Tour – Rent A Boyfriend Continues…

Look Book!

These outfits were inspired by the imagination of our author, Gloria Chao! There weren’t a lot of descriptions of Chloe (Jing Jing 晶晶) Wang’s outfits, but I definitely get the sense of how casual she is and of her love for loose clothing and disinterest in frilly girly lingerie! I have however noticed there are more descriptions of Drew Chen’s outfit, which peeked my interest in menswear…

First Outfit – “Sweatshirt over striped cotton T-shirt and leggings” – I honestly cannot find the pages in the ARC for this description! I decided to pair my favorite Rilakkuma sweatshirt (from my Japan trip last year! I miss Japan!), gray-stripe t-shirt and leopard leggings to re-create this outfit.

Second Outfit – “I was sitting on the couch, fighting my urge to twiddle my thumbs, when Jing-Jing descended the stairs in a flowy, scarlet, knee-length cocktail dress. Three peonies were splashed across the top half above where the skirt flared out, and two adorable Chinese knot closures joined the two sides of the slanted collar.” – Page 162

Obviously there was no way, I would have that exact dress! 😜 However, I did have this knee-length cocktail dress with peony-like flowers all over it! It’s not scarlet color, but it will have to do, and I think it fits perfectly with the setting, and it had the same effect. My husband went “wow” when I put it on, especially when it didn’t zip all the way! =)

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Book Tour – Rent A Boyfriend

*November 13 – Book Tour Stop*

Title: Rent A Boyfriend

Author: Gloria Chao

Published Date: November 10, 2020

Synopsis:

To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before meets The Farewell in this incisive romantic comedy about a college student who hires a fake boyfriend to appease her traditional Taiwanese parents, to disastrous results, from the acclaimed author of American Panda.

Chloe Wang is nervous to introduce her parents to her boyfriend, because the truth is, she hasn’t met him yet either. She hired him from Rent for Your ’Rents, a company specializing in providing fake boyfriends trained to impress even the most traditional Asian parents.

Drew Chan’s passion is art, but after his parents cut him off for dropping out of college to pursue his dreams, he became a Rent for Your ’Rents employee to keep a roof over his head. Luckily, learning protocols like “Type C parents prefer quiet, kind, zero-PDA gestures” comes naturally to him.

When Chloe rents Drew, the mission is simple: convince her parents fake Drew is worthy of their approval so they’ll stop pressuring her to accept a proposal from Hongbo, the wealthiest (and slimiest) young bachelor in their tight-knit Asian American community.

But when Chloe starts to fall for the real Drew—who, unlike his fake persona, is definitely not ’rent-worthy—her carefully curated life begins to unravel. Can she figure out what she wants before she loses everything?

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